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Who I am . . . .

At heart, I am a kid.
At play, I am an artist.
At work, I'm giving a 100% of who I am to my art.
At home, I am a Mom and a wife and an accountant
and a nurse and a chauffeur and a cleaning lady
and a landscaper and an interior decorator and a chef.
I'm not perfect at it, but I work very hard at it everyday.

What you should know about me . . . . .
I'm entirely laid back and fun.
I like making people laugh.
I love a challenge.
My artistic eye and penchant for relating to people, I recognize and
embrace as my gift.
Being a photographer doesn't define who I am, but it certainly has
shaped the person I've become.
I'm a better person because of my photography and my clients;
my muses!

Am I wise? . . . . .
I've come so far and gained so much as a person by experiencing the
good alongside the bad.
I believe that in every obstacle or sticky situation in life, there is
an opportunity for growth in some way.
That a day not thinking about the future is a day neglected.

I am unique. I am close to my heart.
Bottomline, this is me!

Monthly Archives: May 2010

Engaged Couples – Special Event

I’m honored to be a part of special and intimate event. Hope to see you there. Please RSVP to Shawn Schindler at Your Special Day – Wedding and Event Planning

The Grand Marquise Ballroom and Your Special Day Weddings and Special Events invite you, engaged couples, to spend the evening with us Thursday, June 10, 2010 from 6:00pm to 8:00pm. The evening will feature a tour of the facility, hors d’oeuvres and dessert, and the opportunity to talk with some of the area’s leading vendors.

Featured Vendors Include:
The Grand Marquise Ballroom
Your Special Day Weddings and Special Events
We Cook for You
Premiere Catering
Azul Photography
Swank Photo Studio
Beth Jarvah Photography
Fresh Affairs
The Green Kangaroo
Sweet Memories Bakery
SeaSound Studio Entertainment
Classic Party Rentals
Heart and Style Collections by Joanie Edge
Blue Diamond Limo
Enchanting Moments

Please RSVP no later than June 4, 2010 to shawn@makingyourdayspecial.com!

We look forward to meeting you!

Raleigh Wedding Photographer – Adam & Alex Engagement Session

What a session! I mean, really! Adam is full of surprised for his Alex.

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After having proposed to his fiancee at The Umstead Hotel & Spa in Cary,  Adam had bought a gift certificate for an engagement session with me as a for no reason surprise to Alex. Apparently, Alex has been a fan of my work and she had put out a special request and he told her ‘no’ a bunch of times and did it anyway. Romance lives!

Alex was in touch with me about a month ago as we began ironing out plans for our session together. She said she wanted something different and had gone ahead and gotten 50 lanterns for their session as well as two cute dresses. I knew exactly where we were going. Pure and hidden beauty can be found at the Clayton Jalopy Graveyard, home to neglected cars of the 30′s, 40′s, 50′s, 60′s; yet not without soul!

I drive by the site everytime I go to the gym and always internally comment to the noodle that someday I want to do a session there with an engaged couple and a bridal session. Alex bought the bait. I knew she was a girl of adventure and Adam was along for the ride. We rounded out our session in a local wheat field.

A tremendous thank you to my partner in crime Margo from Belloviso for her amazing stylings of Miss Alex.

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Raleigh Boudoir Photographer – Speaking at WPS Convention

I am delighted to be announcing that I will be a keynote speaker at theWPS Convention to be held here in Durham at Hilton/Mansion on the Hill in late June!

The O5(short for Oxygen5) as we’re called, are breathing new life to the photography industry by coming together in camaraderie to help elevate, educate, and inspire our industry. Our belief is that we do not have to be so cut throat and competitive with one another. That we can truly all come together in photographic harmony and peace and share all that we go through as photographers.

My speaking topic is Boudoir – Shooting the 1/2 Nakeds Fundamentally speaking, this will broach on the subject of establishing connectivity with your clients so they are relaxed and comfortable during their session. The seminar will also in partly discuss comfortable posing for your clients. Please visit the Vintage Vixens section of this blog to see samples of my work.

On day two- I will be leading interactive lens lessons. Bring your camera. We will have a hotel suite where I will work with a live client during a boudoir session. This is Q&A time and practice and shoot time.

I also have two openings left for mentoring you and the fun thing about it is that 100% of it will go to the charity – Give Kids the World. Mentoring sessions are $30 for 1/2 hour.

Get on board! The WPS is a limited and intimate convention. We’re capping out at 100 attendees! Please follow this link to register – WPS Convention

Looking forward to seeing you there!

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Washington, DC Family Photographer – {Baby Grant}

The next few posts are from my ongoing series that I’ve been shooting in Washington, DC. The arrangements are easy. My brother, sister-in-law, and nephew call DC home and hence when I’m up, they’re so welcoming, it becomes my home too.

Since shooting my cutest little nephew Grant, the word has quickly spread. I’m starting to build a little biz up there and I totally welcome the change of scenery. So I’ve adopted my DC series; a series of sessions I’ll arrange for a few times a year. Any excuse to see family is a good one for me. And so far, I’ve connected with several of Washington Redskin Cheerleaders and their new families.

Well, as suiting as it may be, my first clients this series was . . . . . my weetle nephew Grant. He errs on the side of serious. Very big, expressive blue eyes will win your heart over. He’s a love. We did the best this trip and captured some nice moments. He indeed was teething because not even a few days later I heard from my brother that he cut his first tooth. Awww. Time for steak and corn on the cob  ..  . . . . . grrrrr!

Some pics from their session.

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Raleigh Wedding Photographer – The Sutherland

Well to say the Lauren is an exquisite bride is an understatement. The accomplished equestrian and horse trainer had approached me last winter about shooting her May wedding and sadly I was already booked and the bridal session would have to do.

I met her up at The Sutherland in Wake Forest. The gorgeous historical country estate was the perfect backdrop for our pics and our time of day, albeit split because of a client meeting ended up being perfection too! A procrastinating makeup artist held us up for the first 45 minutes and I already had a client meeting planned for after the session, so I had to leave and then come back. It was just the time she needed to loosen up a little further. If I tell you that I started out with a very nervous girl and came back to a supermodel, would you believe me?

It was true, compliments of a glass of wine and about an hour of relaxing. It was then that I was able to tap into her and channel her Zen model side. I knew she had it in her.

Thanks for the gorgeous pics, Lauren! Looking forward to working with you in the future!

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Boudoir Photographer – Raleigh, NC {Totally, Tamitha!}

Such a cool girl! She was a referral from one of my other former Vintage Vixens, Robin. Tamitha had several reschedules due to her crazy work schedule, but she finally made her way down from Washington, DC in early April.

She’s entirely laid back and fun and we had a great time playing around. She opted for a full VV experience which allows for multiple outfits, set changes, and looks to complete a true diva session. It’s a little surprise so shhhhhh! She told her hubby she was coming down for one of those ‘home parties’. Hmmmm? I think he bought the bait. Their anniversary is this weekend and he’s being presented with a sweet little Honeybook!

Happy Anniversary – T!

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Compromise vs. Preservation

Compromise vs. Preservation

This year in particular and because I’m an active member in my photography community, I’ve noticed there is a ton of banter going on regarding the economy, how it’s affecting our business growth, and how we’re all handling it. There is an immense onslaught of wedding photographers in our immediate Raleigh/Durham area. I equate part of this to the hobbiest losing their jobs or wanting out of corporate; turning pro and also to those looking to make a quick $2k in a weekend. Granted, this is not the case all the time with every photographer starting out. What’s lacking here is the bride that can differentiate between the hobbiest photographer when sidled with the pro photographer. Bear in mind, they too are dealing with having to be more budget savvy. We’re all being impacted.

I feel what I’m typing here is partial purge of emotions and feelings surrounding this, coupled with the need to educate both professionals in my industry as well as the up and coming brides and grooms.

Have you fallen victim to either saying or hearing, “Love your work! I cannot afford you.”? It’s been a recurring theme for this year and yes, I’m a bit tired of hearing it. I’ve let myself succumb to it. I’ve taken it personally, and still at the end of the day am able to rationalize that it is still a compliment. I do however struggle with the passion that fuels me. I still WANT to be working because of the love for my profession. So the yin and yang of the year is compromise vs. preservation and if you were to ask me, it depends on the day of the week as to how I am siding. I am remaining consistent in one thing and that is not sacrificing who I am as an artist in the name of the mighty dollar. Preservation?

Pride is a factor that ties into this. When you recognize the value of who you are as an artist, there really is no going back to undervaluing yourself. There is a huge amount of integrity in what we do if we are doing it the right way and operating as a true and effective business. It’s easy for a bride to say well this photographer is $2k and you’re starting at $4k, why would I choose you when I can get all of this in my package for less? I’ve faced this a bunch of times this year and I’m slowly realizing that there is some value in taking the time to educate those prospects. It has indeed worked in my favor.

I’ve granted myself the time to step back from the situation to analyze what is going on here and the thing that came to me was that for the most part, for many of these brides and grooms, this is the first time that they are coming forward in search of their photographer. They’re virginal, well, in a sense! They’re an open book for education and it’s my responsibility as a professional to give them the dish.

So recently, a bride came to me, ‘shopping’, revealed to me that they found another photographer who can for $3k, shoot all day, with a second photographer, DVD of pics from all sessions, engagement session with signing book, bridal session, bridal portrait, and a flushmount album with 75 pictures, and a bunch of loose prints. Good lord, where do I even begin!

First and foremost, this should be a red flag to a bride. This is someone either new to the industry and portfolio building or someone who actually hasn’t done the math to clock their hours.  Brides, are you willing to be a guinea pig for someone’s portfolio? For some, I’m sure out of lack of budget, the answer is yes and I have to accept that. Not everyone has the means or resources to pull from. Perhaps I’ve touched on something for the latter of you answering ‘no’. And in such case has actually been a few of my brides for the year.

So where do we start with negotiations? Ack! I know. Ya know, that whole preservation thing I had mentioned earlier. I’m speaking of an entirely different type of negotiation. I negotiate their mindset. Shape their thinking when it comes to my costs. They’ve come to you wanting x,y, & z and want it all with your photography.  What I tell them is this; if photography is the most important aspect of their wedding, as it is, truly, the only thing they will take away from their wedding day minus a dirty dress, then obtaining my services is the way to start. Everything can always be added on post wedding or along the way. I don’t mind a client adding on a bridal session, portrait, album, etc., but the services are first in the security of being assured of those invaluable memories immortalized in time. Being flexible and creative with my wedding collections enables my clients to feel as though they are in control of their choices and in light of the current state of our economy and given our customizable collections, ends up being a win/win for both of us.

Just a rundown of the above sample package with the portfolio building photographer and I break this down by hours spent on this one client as per how I handle it:
Wedding day coverage – 8 hours + 8 hours of my associate’s time + 8 hours of my assistant’s time – travel
Bridal session – 8 hours (averages 2 hours of travel back and forth + 2 hours of time spent with bride, assistant, same hours, and meeting with my editor, editing 1 hour, enhancements 2 hours)
Engagement session – 7 hours (1 hour travel back and forth, + 1 hour of time with clients, assistant same hours, meeting my editor editing 2 hour, enhancements 1 hour)
Creating galleries for all sessions, uploading, and email notification to clients with ordering instructions – (3 hours)
Handling of clients calls, emails, meetings, & concerns – (3 hours)
2 Albums – file preparation, layout, proofing, and submitting to album company, shipping and transporting to clients (25 hours)
DVD preparation and packaging and shipping (2 hours)

These are my averages with my clients personally to deliver them heirloom products and attentive and responsive services – break that into hours and I’ve just spent 72 hours with that one client. This does not include my expenses in gas, my costs for prints, and album expenses, operating costs, and Uncle Sam’s share!  Maybe this photographer doesn’t care. Want a photographer who doesn’t care or understand the values of owning and operating a business? This photographer will run him/herself into the ground eventually. Sure. They’ll be popular and hired out because they are a lower price point, but are they going to be able to deliver to you [someone who is about to partake in one of the biggest days of their life] what you deserve?

In my case, my clients receive 110% of who I am because they’ve invested in me and deserve it. Never compromising who I am as a photographer and always preserving who I am as an artist is my mantra and I’m sticking to it!

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Raleigh Wedding Photographer – Cotton Room Durham

SwankPS50 681x1024 Raleigh Wedding Photographer   Cotton Room DurhamTo say my darling bride Jessica is effervescent is an understatement! Her boundless enthusiasm is entirely contagious.

This is round two for me with the Borrelli family(no we’re not related) and the last sadly. No more Borrelli children for me to shoot. What an honor it is that they chose me twice! This time it was daughter, Jessica’s turn.

Fate led Jesssica to Andy’s arms. A professed Match.com couple, Jessica was signed up for an account by an anonymous person whom she thought would turn up at her wedding. A silent pause gave way to more silence as no one stepped forward to admit to it. Her account was getting ready to expire when a newby to the scene appeared on the site. Jess thought, one last date. What’s it going to hurt. It’s ended/began in a wonderful melding of two lives. The couple was married April 11th at the Cotton Room, the newest event venue on the Durham scene located in Golden Belt. The Triangle Catering’s venue is like non-other. The gorgeous industrial feel of the space was warmed by the candlelight glow and delicious kitchen scents.

A tremendous shout out to my associate shooter – Rebecca Mills of The Indie Image. Thanks Becca!

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